Michael Hemsworth • June 13, 2025
When Is the Right Time to Start Music Lessons?
Making Music vs Music Lessons
When Is the Right Time to Start Music Lessons?
by Mr. Michael – Music Teacher, Parent, and Advocate for Creativity
Hi there!
I’m Mr. Michael—a music teacher, parent, and someone who’s deeply passionate about helping kids grow through creativity.
One of the most common questions I get asked is:
“What’s the best age to start music lessons?”
And here’s the part that might surprise you:
All of my own kids play music—but none of them started formal lessons at a very young age.
In fact, most of their instruction began during their tween and teen years. That brings me to a really important distinction:
Music-Making vs. Music Lessons
There’s a big difference between the best age to start making music and the best age to begin studying an instrument formally.
From birth to around age seven, children are soaking up musical aptitudes—things like pitch, rhythm, tone, and coordination. This is a prime window for musical growth, and that’s why group classes like our Music Explorers or Animal Adventures in Music are so powerful. They help young kids experience music in joyful, age-appropriate ways.
So, When Should My Child Start an Instrument?
Here’s the short version:
🎵 It’s never too early to make music.
🎵 It’s never too late to start an instrument.
🎵 But it can be too early for formal lessons, depending on your child’s readiness.
For example, piano and violin are often great starter instruments for ages 5–7 because they match well with developing motor skills. At this age, lessons should still include plenty of movement, listening, and playful exploration—not just reading music.
Other instruments, like guitar or wind/brass, may require more strength or breath control. But there are accessible alternatives like the ukulele, recorder, or even a small hand drum that can open doors for little learners.
Questions to Ask About Readiness
If you're thinking about starting lessons, ask yourself:
Is my child curious about instruments and willing to engage a few times a week?
Can they focus and follow instructions for at least 10 minutes?
Are they ready to learn from someone other than a parent?
Most importantly—am I ready to support them at home with regular practice?
If you’re not quite there yet, that’s totally okay. There are still so many ways to enjoy music together—through singing, movement, listening games, or group classes.
My Story (and My Kids’)
For the record—I didn’t start piano lessons until I was nearly in middle school. And my kids? They started in their double digits too. What matters most isn’t when you start, but how you support a child’s musical curiosity and confidence along the way.
So if your child is showing interest, let that be your sign. Reach out to a music school like ours, or talk to a trusted local teacher. We’ll help you figure out what’s right for your child’s age, stage, and personality.
Music is a lifelong journey. And wherever you’re starting from, we’re here to walk with you—one joyful note at a time.
With encouragement,
Mr. Michael
Teacher at NewSongs Music School
Author of Mr. Michael’s Music Maker Manual
If you’ve ever wished your child would sit down to play piano without being reminded, here’s a secret: it’s not always about motivation - sometimes it’s about environment. A child’s surroundings can completely change how they feel about practicing. Just like reading under a favorite blanket feels better than reading under a flickering light, the right space can turn piano time from a chore into a joy. Here are five simple ways to create a music corner that makes practice time feel natural, peaceful, and fun. 1. Put the Piano Where Life Happens If your child’s piano or keyboard is tucked away in a spare room, they might feel like practice means “disappearing.” Instead, place it somewhere visible — in the family room, near a window, or anywhere your household gathers. When music feels like part of everyday life, kids are more likely to explore it naturally — without you needing to ask. 2. Make It Bright, Comfortable, and Welcoming Kids are drawn to spaces that feel good to be in. Add warm light, a comfy bench, and maybe a splash of their personality — artwork, a plant, or a favorite stuffed animal sitting nearby. When their space feels inviting, they’re more likely to sit down, relax, and focus on the joy of making sound. 3. Keep Essentials Within Reach Missing pencils or music books can break the rhythm fast. Keep everything your child needs in a small basket near the piano — books, pencils, stickers, metronome, maybe even a notebook for song ideas. Having the tools ready turns practice into a flow, not a scramble. 4. Invite the Family to Listen A child’s confidence grows when music becomes something shared. Even five minutes of attention can make a big difference. Sit nearby with your coffee, ask them to teach you a few notes, or cheer when they finish a piece. When kids know you’re listening, they play with more pride and purpose. 5. Clear Out the Clutter A calm space makes for calmer practice. Keep the top of the piano clear of papers, toys, or distractions. Add something small that says, “This matters” - a plant, a candle, or a handwritten note that says, “I love hearing you play.” Small visual cues remind your child that music is a valued part of home life, not an afterthought. 💛 A Note for Parents A “music corner” isn’t about making a perfect space — it’s about making a welcoming one. When kids associate piano with warmth, belonging, and encouragement, practice stops feeling like a task and starts feeling like a gift.
At NewSongs Music School, recital season is one of our favorite times of year. Our students get the chance to take what they’ve learned in lessons and share it with family, friends, and the community. For many children, standing on stage is more than just performing a song — it’s a chance to grow in confidence, celebrate progress, and feel the joy of music in a whole new way. Our upcoming Winter Recitals are right around the corner: Sat, Dec 13 — Madison Ave Campus Sat & Sun, Dec 13–14 — Grant Line Campus Some time slots are already full, but we want every student to have their chance to shine. Whether it’s their very first time performing or one more step in their musical journey, recitals help children set meaningful goals, stay motivated in lessons, and experience the excitement of applause. If your child hasn’t signed up yet, now is the time! Connect with your teacher or the front desk to reserve a spot. We can’t wait to cheer for them.
Parents ask this question all the time: Are music lessons really worth the money? It’s a fair question. With so many activities competing for your (and your child’s) time - and your family’s budget - you want to make sure the investment pays off. At NewSongs Music, we believe the answer is a big yes . Music lessons aren’t just about learning notes; they’re about building skills, confidence, and joy that last a lifetime. Let’s break it down in plain language, so you can decide what’s right for your family. The Real Benefits of Music Lessons Music shapes kids in ways that go far beyond playing an instrument. Sharper thinking: Music uses every part of the brain. Kids who take lessons often build stronger memory, focus, and problem-solving skills. Better in school: The same skills used to keep a steady beat or recognize patterns help with math, reading, and language. Confidence that sticks: Whether it’s playing a song for grandma or performing at a recital, kids learn how to push through nerves and feel proud of what they’ve accomplished. Life lessons disguised as music: Patience, perseverance, discipline—music teaches them all. Emotional outlet: Music helps kids express themselves, manage stress, and discover a healthy way to process feelings. Social skills: In group lessons or ensembles, children learn to listen, collaborate, and create something bigger than themselves. And here’s something many parents don’t realize: even the physical side of music matters. Playing piano, violin, or guitar builds fine motor skills, coordination, and mind-body connection. What About the Cost? This is usually the toughest part. Music lessons are an investment—both financially and in time. Prices vary depending on the instrument, whether lessons are private or group, and how long each session lasts. Private lessons (one-on-one) typically cost more, but they move at your child’s pace. Group lessons are usually more affordable and give kids a fun, social learning experience. Instrument costs can add up, but many families start with rentals until they know their child is committed. At NewSongs, most families spend somewhere between $140–$200 per month for weekly lessons. That’s often less than the cost of sports leagues or gymnastics—and the benefits last just as long, if not longer. Is It Really Worth It? Think of it this way: you’re not just paying for lessons. You’re giving your child a foundation of creativity, confidence, and resilience. Music is something they can carry into every part of life—school, friendships, and even future careers. And then there’s the joy factor. The look on your child’s face when they master their first song? Priceless. The sound of them filling your home with music? Worth every penny. Common Questions Parents Ask: What age should my child start? Some programs begin as early as preschool, but ages 5–7 are great for starting piano or violin. Older kids can jump in anytime—it’s never too late. How much should my child practice? For young beginners, 10–15 minutes a day is plenty. The key is consistency, not marathon sessions. What if they lose interest? It happens! Sometimes it’s the instrument, sometimes it’s the routine. Talk with the teacher, try a new instrument, or explore group lessons to keep the spark alive. Are group lessons as good as private? They’re different. Private lessons give individualized attention. Group lessons build teamwork and motivation. Many families choose both at different times. Final Note: An Investment in Harmony Music lessons are more than a line in your budget - they’re a gift your child will carry for a lifetime. At NewSongs Music, our C.A.R.E. values ( Curiosity, Acceptance, Respect, Expression ) guide everything we do. We want your child not only to learn music, but to grow and discover who they are through it. So, are music lessons worth it? Absolutely. Because when your child learns music, they’re not just making notes on a page—they’re making themselves.